tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4795483213843043301.post4036933574714112183..comments2023-04-28T07:38:34.667-07:00Comments on Teh Portly Dyke: On Remaining Chronically In LovePortlyDykehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08598941981828041835noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4795483213843043301.post-83025028834301294462008-05-09T07:55:00.000-07:002008-05-09T07:55:00.000-07:00What a lovely concept... and certainly something I...What a lovely concept... and certainly something I would like to be working towards myself.<BR/><BR/>I would very much appreciate it if you would show me a copy.Tanyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01472824248832737141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4795483213843043301.post-42652180047228713712008-02-11T12:54:00.000-08:002008-02-11T12:54:00.000-08:00Can you please expand on this topic and share a co...Can you please expand on this topic and share a copy of the agreementa/intentions?<BR/><BR/>It is such a lovely concept.<BR/><BR/>Thank you for sharing it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4795483213843043301.post-20641401865330716352008-02-10T16:16:00.000-08:002008-02-10T16:16:00.000-08:00beyondfeminism -- I absolutely think this is possi...beyondfeminism -- I <I>absolutely</I> think this is possible within a heterosexual relationship.<BR/><BR/>In fact, I think that entering relationship with clear agreements (especially as regards equal exchange) is even more critical in a relationship between a man and a woman, where cultural assumptions tend to run rampant unless brought to consciousness and directly addressed.<BR/><BR/>I say that I think it is possible because I have helped straight couples (in my work) create these agreements with one another, and have seen their relationships blossom and grow as a result.PortlyDykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08598941981828041835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4795483213843043301.post-11017099654044529442008-02-10T15:34:00.000-08:002008-02-10T15:34:00.000-08:00Portly, do you think all this is possible within a...Portly, do you think all this is possible within a heterosexual relationship?<BR/><BR/>CheersAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4795483213843043301.post-87198127618475582862008-02-07T22:44:00.000-08:002008-02-07T22:44:00.000-08:00P.S.I hope (and work toward) the day that you and ...P.S.<BR/><BR/>I hope (and work toward) the day that you and your Beloved like I and mine may marry legally if that's what's best. Love and commitment don't require a his and a hers, just an ours.<BR/><BR/>Joan RoochAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4795483213843043301.post-79365368606745965112008-02-07T22:38:00.000-08:002008-02-07T22:38:00.000-08:00Thank you.I'm gobsmacked.I also love watching Tim ...Thank you.<BR/><BR/>I'm gobsmacked.<BR/><BR/>I also love watching Tim in unguarded moments, the tilt of his head, his lovely giggle when something he reads or sees catches him just so; and, like you, I'm not sure of his eye color, either, slate-navy-with flecks of sometimes gold and sometimes pyrite, depending on his mood, and mine.<BR/><BR/>Tim and I have lived together for 22 years; 22nd anniversary in May. We never considered making lists, but what an extraordinary idea. It shows how evolved you both are. <BR/><BR/>We wish you nothing but love and more evolution until you choose to join the universe in one last big bang.<BR/><BR/>Peace,<BR/>Joan RoochAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com